安定

下大雨的时候，我想念你。
晚餐时间的时候，我想念念。
身心灵疲累的时候，我想念你。

人总是矛盾的，你在的时候，希望自己离开你越远越好。
你不在的时候，只能在回忆寻找你的影子。

想起你，想起昔日的自己。
是安定。。。

"If You Really Loved Me, You Wouldn't..."

 How often have you had the thought, "If you really loved me, you wouldn't... 

• Get angry, yell, curse, call names, say mean, untrue things about me
• Project your behavior onto me
• Withdraw, run away, shut down, sit spaced-out in front of the TV
• Resist doing what I ask you to do
• Look at other women, have an affair
• ____________________ (fill in your own)

I used to have this thought all the time. If someone yelled, blamed me, shut me out, didn't see me accurately, or went into resistance, I would think, "You don't care about me. If you cared about me, you wouldn't treat me this way. How can you say you care about me and then treat me this way?" 

http://www.innerbonding.com/show-article/2883/if-you-really-loved-me-you-wouldnt.html

如果你爱我，为什么你这样对我？