想念

常常在睡梦之间忆起有那么一条小小的河沟，我们蹲在旁边捞小鱼蝌蚪。

小鱼的头好大，我们没有别的工具，只有双手。

有时真的好好运气，捞到几条。赶快把它们装在瓶子里带回家。

拿出好不容易存起来还没用完的中秋节蜡烛。

开始了我的拿手好戏，蜡煎小鱼。

拔一些屋边的野草，那是我们的野茶汤。

镜头停在那间老旧的木屋，那间我迫不及待长大离开的地方，现在再也回不去的地方。

原来，我已经长大，在梦想与现实拉锯之间汲汲营营。

转眼迎来我的三十四岁生日，祈愿我的上帝我的神与我同在。

像昔日的带着我走过每一个充满挑战的日子！

Quantum Leap

sow a thought and you reap an action; 
sow an act and you reap a habit; 
sow a habit and you reap a character; 
sow a character and you reap a destiny. 

If you want small changes, work on your behavior;
If you want quantum-leap changes, work on your paradigms.” ~ Stephen R. Covey

安定

下大雨的时候，我想念你。
晚餐时间的时候，我想念念。
身心灵疲累的时候，我想念你。

人总是矛盾的，你在的时候，希望自己离开你越远越好。
你不在的时候，只能在回忆寻找你的影子。

想起你，想起昔日的自己。
是安定。。。

"If You Really Loved Me, You Wouldn't..."

 How often have you had the thought, "If you really loved me, you wouldn't... 

• Get angry, yell, curse, call names, say mean, untrue things about me
• Project your behavior onto me
• Withdraw, run away, shut down, sit spaced-out in front of the TV
• Resist doing what I ask you to do
• Look at other women, have an affair
• ____________________ (fill in your own)

I used to have this thought all the time. If someone yelled, blamed me, shut me out, didn't see me accurately, or went into resistance, I would think, "You don't care about me. If you cared about me, you wouldn't treat me this way. How can you say you care about me and then treat me this way?" 

http://www.innerbonding.com/show-article/2883/if-you-really-loved-me-you-wouldnt.html

如果你爱我，为什么你这样对我？